I had the best roommate in the world last year. I miss her. Because my roommate this year is a whiney little git that I want to strangle every time I see her.
She and I used to be friends, but not anymore. Or at least I can't see us being the same kind of friends we used to be. It's not like we were bff's or anything, we were just friends. I thought living with her would be easy/fun. Boy was I wrong. She always has an excuse for not doing things. It's usually "I was in a rush" or something very similar. I'm sick of hearing that lame excuse. There's always time to get things done if you schedule your time correctly. I don't think she understands this concept.
On top of this, she doesn't respect me or my space. She puts HER s**t on MY bed ALL THE TIME. I'm constantly having to throw my stuff back onto her bed. I don't throw her stuff on her bed, why is she throwing her stuff on mine? I know I'm almost never there, but that shouldn't change the fact that it's MY bed!
Every time I go into our room, it looks like a bomb hit and barfed all over our room. There's always stuff all over the closet floor. I haven't been able to see the floor in there since the first couple weeks of school. And of course, her excuse for this is "I was in a rush" or "I just haven't had time" B***F***INGS***. I see her just surfing Facebook quite a bit. That's time that COULD be spent picking up a few things here and there. I think that if she does have such precious little time, that should motivate her to keep it clean. It means she won't have to go back and clean it later. I'm just tired of seeing her stuff everywhere and not doing a thing about it.
Of course, she's also slowly taking over the ENTIRE room. That we're supposed to SHARE. Again, while I may not be there much, this doesn't mean she gets everything in there. She's taken over one of my dresser drawers, she took off all of the stuff that was mine on top of the dresser and put it on the desk for HER stuff, there's no room ANYWHERE on the bathroom counter for any of my things, and the closet has gone from having rather divided areas for our stuff, to almost merged in some parts.
AND ANOTHER THING!!!! SHE USES MY STUFF WITHOUT ASKING!! And I"m not talking about borrowing clothes (luckily we wear different sizes/have different taste in clothes). First she uses up ALL of my feminine products, then her printer is broken (so of course she has to print of 50 gagillion papers), THEN she uses my towels, and to top it all: She uses HALF of my HYPOALLERGENIC lotion which is the ONLY kind of lotion I can use on my face without it BURNING. AAAAARGH!!!!! I mean, is it THAT difficult to pick up her phone, dial my numer, and ask to USE that lotion? IS IT?!?!?!
In closing: I HATE MY ROOMMATE! Anyone have suggestions on how to deal with her without making her want to rip out my hair?
BenchWench · Tue Dec 16, 2008 @ 06:56am · 1 Comments |