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Important facts on what happened:

-Was dating someone I met on Gaia at the time.

-It was a country long distance relationship.

-In order to feel intimate, exchanged intimate gifs and saved mine on my photobucket.

-Was honestly well known at this time on GD, and subsequently n00d hacked, yad yada and posted.

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My thoughts as of May 23th:

Having your privacy exposed and intruded on is a life changing experience.
Although we all know the forum the GD, aka "the hormonal jerks headquarters,"
there are still real people behind each user. And we forget that sometimes because
we, as users, are only limited to seeing just words and pictures, and pixels.

Not many of us can remind ourselves of the flesh and blood behind a user.

Anyways, back to how it changed me:
Although it was embarrassing in a way, it also brought a lot of unwanted male attention. Ever since that day, every single time I logged on I would get endless messages, or people who I barely talked to before (males) SUDDENLY took this curious lol motivation to message me and try to strike up a conversation.

I mean that's not even the half of it:

It's annoying when someone posts something of yours that was not meant to be public, it's them forcing a part of you that you wanted to remain only known to your select people...into total exposure.


You're actions are more readable than you think people.

So to whomever/those people who dropped my n***s: Don't be ashamed of yourselves, but do try to be a bit more considerate of your actions in the future.
Because later internet laws might change (I mean CISPA was already passed) and furthermore we might have the technology to seriously trace and press charges.


Anyways,
Although it was embarrassing, and brought unwanted attention..ultimately
it did teach me how humans function.

Men (more later i have to go)