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[size=9][align=center]Solo, I completely understand what your going through. And im not saying that just to make you feel better. But you have to take a chance and not be so picky. when you find a guy, he 's not gonna meet your standards right then and there. I know you've gone through some pretty tough s**t with some of the other guys, and im not gonna sit here and tell you i understand what that feels like to deal with them. And Vince...well...you know how i feel about him. I dont blame you at all, at times he can be a really great guy. But i honestly think you need to let him go. I know im being a hypocrite by saying that cause im doing the same thing with Jess. But solo, every one of those guys, including me, are absolutely insanely crazy for not trying harder with you. Your an amazing person no matter what you think about yourself. But relationships come with hurt. It's one of those good-thing bad-thing...things xD. I've had my fair share with it and no one should have to go through it, but it happens. But you learn from the hurt, learn what you should or shouldnt do next time. Vince is a good guy, you just have tendencies of comparing people to him, you told me yourself you did. Theres nothing wrong with that. And if you need someone to talk to, i will ALWAYS be here for you, no matter what. Hell, if you wanna scream, punch, rant or buy a quart of icecream all you have to do is give me call and i'll be there. and no-one has to know, you know i can keep a secret no matter how big it is. It's not weird that you enjoy being liked. I dont think theres one person that hates it. I know that for hte last month or so you've been acting different, just battling some inner demons i guess after reading this entry. I dont know about you being "yourself" totally...but then again, i wouldnt know that, it's your head. I would be lying if i said i wasnt worried about what was going on. Hell, the other day at lunch when you threw salad at me, while it ******** pissed me off to no end, made me understand that somehing really was wrong. Your my closest friend and i only want to help you right now, so i apologize greatly if anything im saying is making you mad. I am not meaning harm in any way. But Solo, if they are real friend's they will still like you for who you are. Not what they want you to be. And if they do distance themselves, they are stupid people who dont realize what an awesome person they are missing out on. As for the Duo thing, thats understandable and completely okay. It doesnt make you weird or psycho or any of that. I think it was after spring break or something, Right when i started RP'ing with you. Remember when i was sorta sarcasticly mean to you and other people? Ryan Thatcher was and still is a sort of alter ego. He's everything that i could ever wish to be. He's afraid of no-one, nothign stands in his way. Were-as I am a scared, insecure "emo kid" :roll: . So i thought i would try being "Ryan Thatcher" for once, and see what happened. I LOVED all the attention i got, people were talking to me and noticed me. Then i found out what i was saying was actually hurting a couple people, you included. Your not alone out there Solo. Be who YOU want to be. Do what YOU want. Your not crazy for just being you. Solo i will [i]always [/i]be there for you, even if no-one else is. Your the most amazing person i have ever met and im not going to let you throw yourself down the tubes. If you want my help, thats great, you know i'd do anything for you. But if you dont, and i know sometimes you just want to be alone, Then let me know and i would be more than happy to oblige. I just want you to be honest with me and let me know if something is wrong and i will do everything in my power to help you out. I've officially run out of things to say now xD so i'll leave with that. Like i said, im very sorry if anything i have said has made you upset, i didnt mean for it too. Pardon the spelling too xD. It's dark and i cant see the keyboard too well. Luff you lots[/align][/size]

hmm...the whole not feeling like you used to and acting to cover s**t up from your past and the role playing others...it will catch up to you...i dont mean to sound like a d**k...but it will...i speek from experiance...i dont know who i am or who i will be...drop the masks and show people who you are before you no longer exist...i dono what im getting at

*hugs*