I noticed a little something interesting about myself the other day. I thought for awhile that I was clingy, but I'm not. Clingy people are the ones who can't stand to be away from the ones they love. They always have to be there. But now that I think about it, that's not what my problem is. My problem is that I hate to be ignored. When I say hi, or write a pm, im, etc, i'd like a reply. Sure it doesn't have to be right away, but if it's being read, then ignored, that hurts. I understand how people get busy, but when they take the time to do other stuff, yet can't take a few seconds to say, "can't talk, busy", it gets to me. Like I'm not important enough to be informed. Just tossed aside with the rest of the trash. That's when I start to sound clingy. I keep talking or whatever. Not the brightest person out there and sometimes I need to be told. If not, I get annnoying and I don't realize it. Yet the funnny thing is, if I know you're busy, I leave you alone for the most part. Only thing I'd ask, is when you're coming back...
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