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Well it's pretty much safe to say I have gone on another boredom streak with gaia. I did get busy around the time I stopped getting on so much, but it was because of some family health problems. On Feb. 10th my husband and I had to take our son to Dallas so he could have an operation. Nothing big honest. Noahh started forming a small tumor called a hemangioma, nasty little things.

They are common in infants and are known to go away or grow extremely large and cause health problems. Noahh's started forming right above his left ear. It was small for the longest time 2 months went by and no change then just one day I noticed it started getting a little bigger. We went to see his doctor and he said it would be wise to get it removed before it caused severe problems.

I took off work…I was still working at the grocery store at the time. The surgery lasted no longer then an hour plus he was monitored for 2 Days after that. When I finally got home I just couldn’t seem to catch up on anything. I was 6 assignments behind in my classes with a week left of school plus still going to work. My husband then got a terrible toothache and was down for the rest of the week so he was really no help at all.

I had to get my mom to watch the boys for me when I went to work. I have no insurance besides medicade and they won’t cover dental on Noahh so we are both screwed in that category. Around this point I wasn’t on gaia at all. There just nothing to hold my interest here. Friends that were friends are strangers now. Plus many of them are younger then me and just have that flare that doesn’t attract me anymore.

I remember once probably over a year ago I just found out I was pregnant with my second child that I had mentioned this to a friend of mine on here. The first thing he told me was “You’re having another kid with this economy?” Needles to say I watch who I talk to now on a personal basis. I don’t like to get questioned about my finical status by anyone its really no ones business but mine. You don’t say certain things it’s rude. One thing I hate most younger adulthood rudeness grow up people!

I do talk to Kyle a lot when it comes to my children because he like me is a parent. He is going through a tough time. You see the mother of his child passed away a few months ago she died in a car accident. Now he is fighting custody over his daughter with the maternal grandmother. He doesn’t get on gaia much at all. But if you ever happen to see the username Raves Kyle Wild flashy that happy smiley face give him a holla. He is quite spiritual to speak to.

On top side I have finally planted me a new job! I have moved on from being the young mom growing old at the supermarket to full time bartender! I was so damn surprised when I got the job because I never bartended a day in my life. But after Noahh was born I was looking for another job. There were just so many things going on at Lawerence Bros that I had no reason to stay there anymore.

I put up working there for so long because I was pregnant with Noahh and I honestly didn’t think I would be able to find another job. My husband is on SSI and gets small under the table jobs only so often. But I applied to work at Whitewood Lanes it’s a bowling alley under new management. I use to work there about 3-4 years ago its where me and Noahh had first met. Then one day out the blue they called me wanting me to come in for an interview and I was hired on as a bartender that same day.

They were having issues with the last bartender and needed a new one right away. I had my license to sell alcohol so they took me on. I quit my job at Lawerence Bro that same day. My former boss was so pissed that I wasn’t giving him a 2 week notice that he jipped me for my vacation hours. I could have reported it but I didn’t bother wasn’t too important to me anyway. I don’t get paid as much working as a bartender but I get tips too. It’s good to come home almost every night with a little cash in my pocket! Oh and before you get yourself to confused my husband and youngest son have the same name.