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Love...
Theres alot of people who write about love, finding love, getting married, having kids, losing love daily. We are all obsessed with love, although some of us don't show it very often. I for one act like I don't need or want love in real life but the truth is... I think about love every second of the day and realise each more every little time that everyone longs for ridiculous, inconvient, can't live without each other kind of love.
But has anyone fell for their best friend or the person they are totally not meant to fall in love with? Its hard to be around them, especially if you like a friend. They tell you about the person they like and they don't even realise the smiles you give them, the way you talk to them, the way you always forgive the things they were not meant to do...
One very popular singer sang about Single Ladies, well she was wrong to sing about that. It wasn't so hot around Valentines Day, infact on MSN Today it was said to be put down as the worst Valentines day song. All us single ladies just want to be loved, we don't need a ring to prove that.. But for Security, oh thats just another thing... If people are getting married for the security then I'd be ashamed, it would be all buisness and no romance. Like all work and no play. If someone asked me to marry them to insure security in a relationship, I'd dump them and tell them where to stick their security!
A great ladie once said, 'Girls must have three very important things, inner and outer beauty, the attitude to prove she is not one to mess around with and a great man on her arm... ' I agree with the famous quote, but every girl has some out and inner beauty in them. I have a friend, Mream, she acts like shes tough so if anyone says anyone about her.. She's there to fight her corner, but when you get to know her.. She really is a sweet heart and I adore her.
I want a guy who won't just call me his Amy, I want a guy I can have a laugh with, who I can thumb wrestle with him and he wouldn't just let me win, he'd actually try... When it comes to boyfriends, I want a guy who can be my best friend and still the guy I love more than anyone in the whole world. When it comes to being the guy who steals my heart has to have a few things with/in him, a heart, to be atleast a little bit taller/older, I don't want to go out with a Grandpa, I want someone about my age but I don't want someone like 17 barking up my freakin' window. I'm the normal teen wanting a guy who she can depend on, for all the day everyday, 35-8!
What if you had a fight with the owner of your heart? He was going out with someone new, someone... Who acts like a 'noob'? Would you try to stop it getting serious, watch letting your own heart break.. Or try to tell him your feelings and hope that he would just love you back... Therefore it would become your own mini fairytale but life hasn't got fairytales... Theres no glass shoes, not alot of men charging to their love's house riding a white horse...
What if you fell for someone? What would happend if he was your Prince Charming and you weren't his Cinderella? What if it was the other way around? What if Snow white would still be still sleeping in that Glass container? What if Jasmin was still under Jafar's spell? Would Aladdin give up and start up a life with a small town girl? What if... Our true love's gave up on us and went for an easier option? Would we still love them? Would they still love us? What if... For the first time in our life's... We lived 'Happy ever after'?
What is it with our ex's? Us girls, we are all intrested with our ex if they are getting married and living 'happily ever after'. What if we tried to stop them ruining their lifes? Would they believe us and fall for us all over again? Would they ignore us and marry the person you think is wrong for them? Are we scared of being shut out their lifes if we try and stop them just to secure that we won't stop them and ruin the 'marriage' as they like to call it? Me, you ask? Well, I am mostly scared of my ex whom I am still very intrested in that he will just marry a person who is using them, a person who has just known them for 5 minutes, the person who doesen't know how their mind works... I've always tried and stopped them saying things like 'She won't ever love you or care for you like I did!' I was wrong... I never took on the fact that he might shut me out until he threatened it..
Theres alot of types of love, friend love, family love, passionate love and romantic love. Everyone, well just about everyone will experience all the types of love and do you know what one is most important to me? Friend love, without my friends I wouldn't have the strength to go to school in the morning. When one of my friends are feeling down or unwell, I feel there pain... Because the pain of not having them to hug, talk and just plainly be idiotic with is a great pain in the chest.
Love... Why is it something that we can't have? What is it when we meet the most amazing person... Then, turns out their with another person! You get so jealous that it can't get off your mind! It can drive some people crazy? But me? I'm crazy because the guy I adore is single and just wants to be friends! I like being friend's with the guy but come on! I have guys asking me out alot and whenever he hears about it, he gets jealous... Guys! Who can understand how their brain works? We don't know! Science hasn't worked it out yet.
Love is crazy, hard to find just like alot of thing's in life. If we were all to find love in our lifes the world would be a better place. It wouldn't be full of drama like it is, there wouldn't be as much war in the world as much of it is. But the real world isn't like dream world is it? It could be, but I believe, sadly that it never will be a dream world. Not everyone would have a 'happily ever after' with the one they truly and dearly want.
Lifes no fairytale, unless you try your best to make it one . . .
 AmeIIe · Mon Mar 08, 2010 @ 09:41pm · 2 Comments |
