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Hello everyone. Been a month since my last Journal Entry. But this isn't like my other Journal Entry's where I update on my life, or ask advices about something. This is more of question then anything else. To understand we have to go back a bit. Around Summer time to be exact. I just want to know what people think I should've done before I did it.

A long time ago I went by the names of "Judgement" and "AnicentDreamDragon" as some of you may know. I began with Judgment when I first came on and then Switch to AnicentDreamDragon becasue I think I wanted something unique. Anyways must of you may know already what had made me change to AzuraLight. Some of you may remember someone name Roy. How I said that Lived and acted like him on Gaia. And even tried to be like him in real life to. Tried to be a more outgoing person. Tried to show no fear and more courage then I usually. But then a little incident happen and I change to AzuraLight. But when I look back at the event I realized that I change to make other's happy. I tried to become some else to please others. But was I really happy? For the past few weeks that event kept replaying in my mind and I began to think about something’s I end up doing in my life. I tried to be someone I know that I can't be. I throw out my old life for a one that is filled with more hardships could probably sink a Ship. And when I really think about it was what I did really the best option? Chnaging to please other's and to make people happy when I feel misrbale? I just want to know what you all think. Should anyone just anyone change just to please others or should they follow what they think is right?






User Comments: [5]
TheShootingStar_2
Community Member





Sun Nov 15, 2009 @ 04:32pm


ofcourse everyone should follow what they think it right. Or do you want to spend a lifetime living a lie?


dascenzo
Community Member





Sun Nov 15, 2009 @ 05:28pm


i've always done what i feel is right but get other people's opinions too. like every time i changed my user name (bad example, i know), i always asked everyone what they thought about it, and what i thought, then put the two together.
i always do things that make me happy, but i also think of what other people would think if i went through with it.
doing something that can make your friends question you or think differently about you could change or ruin a lot. but doing what you think is right is also a good way to go, because you can't make yourself miserable to make everyone else happier. so try to put the two together and try to do something that everyone is happy with, especially you. but just being yourself is best


Muse of History
Community Member





Sun Nov 15, 2009 @ 05:31pm


Star and Angel are right, you should follow your heart
and do what you believe is right, feels right---but
who was that the change was for? If they didn't like
you or appreciate you fully before your
"change," then they aren't
worth your time.

But .... just remember your still young, mon ami.
You shouldn't be this serious now. Just live life as it
comes and please just have fun. You have another 70+
years to worry about stuff like this. Just be yourself.
There is someone out there who will like you
for who you are, quirkiness and all.

heart Clio heart


TheShootingStar_2
Community Member





Sun Nov 15, 2009 @ 05:47pm


And i also agree to muse,
Dont worry so much!!! live your life as it comes, if you think about everything that happens, you start to doubt if you made the right desicions. So dont worry, and enjoy life.


Lumiere Histoire
Community Member





Mon Nov 16, 2009 @ 02:09am


thats deep man! but never change to make people happy. obviously if they don't like u for who u r then they aren't ur friends. plus i think ur really cool. ur cooler than those jackasses that were in shugart. like that kaevon kid and those other bastards. i dislike them so much. i'll crush them


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