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so, according to my horoscope i'm not supposed to be trying to make any major long term decisions today. but i have a kinda big decision to make right now, so i figured i'd just write it all out here. then tomorrow maybe i'll have a clearer perspective on it anyway.

a couple of friends of mine are getting married (to each other), but it's back in Washington of course. i kinda need to go help my mom with some things and there's a couple things i should tend to on my own behalf as well, so i guess i should go. but ima have to leave my bf here all by himself =/ and that's just sad.

i'd have him come with me, but the bastards at his work gave him a shitty contract and took away his sick pay and vacation time -_- so if he comes with me, he looses money.

if i want the ticket to be about $50 cheaper i should leave on a tuesday and return on a wednesday... but that's 8 days sad so long to be without snuggles and him all alone. so i guess my dilema is... spend more money (of which i have a limited stash which is slowly dwindling), or be gone longer.

and if i choose to stay a shorter time period and screw the money, then i don't really have an exact day or days that is best to go. all i really have to do is be able to get down to the wedding on the 1st of august.

let's see... how many days might i want... one for the wedding of course, and maybe two for my personal agenda, of which one of those days or maybe both could overlap and help my mom with some of her stuff, but maybe i'd want another day or two just in case for helping her. so that's what four or five days? hmmm i should probably arrive at least one day before the wedding, and actually one of the things i need to do would work well to be done on the 31st, so maybe if i can arrive by afternoon of the 31st or else evening on the 30th. so then i guess i would fly back the 5th? and i guess the 5th i won't really want to get in until after 3pm some time, maybe 5ish would be the best.

yeah i s'pose that works.

okay, thanks for letting me ramble ^-^