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This is a technique that I thought only I did, but when discussion about feeding came up, I learned that several other people used it as well. Apparently, it's a pretty common method of feeding, although it really can only be done with an intimate partner.


Here's what you do: you and your partner start off by kissing. I'll leave the details of that up to you. However, when you get to that point in things where it's really intense and you are kissing with open mouths, pull away for just a second. Your partner's mouth should be open a little. Tease it open with your finger or with your tongue if you have to. Then get so close that you are almost touching her mouth with your lips.

Open your own mouth and breathe in her life. This should not be a shallow breath but that deep controlled inhalation used for feeding.

Draw in energy through her open mouth. Of course, get on with the kiss once you get a good draw. You can easily kiss a little, then feed a little more, drawing the session out as long as your partner is still interested in kissing.

I don't recommend doing this with your mouths locked together, although it's still possible to do. It's just that you'll really be sucking her breath out of her in that case, and that's not what you're trying to do. Focus on the energy and let it ride upon the breath.

Presumably you are doing this with a willing partner, but if it is absolutely impossible for you to find someone who can willingly provide energy to you, this is a technique that is easily masked as simple lovemaking, and if you take in many little bursts interspersed throughout the kissing, you'll be able to get what you need without alerting your partner to what you're doing.