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Sounds like to me your heart is in a blender! Thats a way of saying hormones are starting to get out of wack! Well you are the same age as me, but I'm turning 14 soon. So my first year of being a teen is almost over.So I might know a few things that will help you. Hopefully! You are asking who do you think is best to go out with. Well I myself dont "completely" approve of online dating. Sure I'll might online date but I will not take it that seriously than really "seeing" someone you know in your daily life. You sound confused about who you think you should go out with. The term love shouldn't be used with a guy who barely knows you. Because that is just going to give you confusion and add pressure in your life. If this is a person you "see" in your life and not talk to online, you have to make sure he meant his words. That also includes the other guy who said he liked you. REMEMBER you are only at the age of 13. To you might think you completely understand the WHOLE thing about love. But I can honestly say no young teen does. Atleast not yet. After their first or second year of being one teen, they might understand a few things. I know things are hard. Because parents might not understand that this is not their generation. So things are not the same. The same way we see how mankind evolves their smarts in acedemics, it goes the same with how mankind thinks in social life. So we evovled of how we think. Thats why everyday hormones get worse if we don't know how to control it. That fact may help with the problem from the "I love you boy". And as for the other guy. You should know him well, like you know your best friend. So this might b confusing. Well see it at this way. Look for the one who will respect you, treasure you, and always be there for you, and always means his words. I'm not saying The " I love you boy" is not knowing that he might be saying the wrong exact words of how he feels about you. He MIGHT! But you have to figure that out yourself with your smarts in your own social life. Same goes for the other guy. I think its best if you go with a guy who you really sees for who you are, and loves you no matter how you look. Beauty is in as well as out. Plus you sound like you don't approve of how you see your appearance, and how your personality is. Well I can probably see that you are one great person, and you sound strong. Remember beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So to respect yourself you have to love yourself. But not in a stuck up way. You have to handle this boy situation by seeing if they know what they are saying, and that they mean it. If you like or "love" rolleyes then you should see some facts that can help every good thing that will fall into place.