he says: Ok, I live in the states (mainly California). I know a 40+ woman in Japan. Here's the situation
- I'm somewhat checking back up on her because some time ago we stopped talking right when she was at an iffy decision of marrying one of her other friends.
- she once wanted to marry me but decided that it was better not to in fear of alienating me from my parents
-I'm 19 (yeah, 20+ age difference)
- I would be moving to Japan if I decided to get together with her.
- she is still able to have children
- She offered to help me get japanese lessons, a job, etc. while living in Japan. But for the first year I would probably be an at home husband.
- She also offered to help me go to college for my dream of being a comic/manga artist and or writer.
- we do love eachother in ways, and that we would be faithful to our marriage
If she is still iffy about not marrying the guy or has decided not to should I go after her? My at home situation is getting pretty annoying plus I want to get started with my life basically because I feel like it is sort of on pause now. I am highly considuring it but I want to see outside perspectives. ~~ so i say: gullible AND dumb. she's 40 ... she's japanese ... you can't even speak japanese. she's across the ocean. you've never met her.
yes, i completly see how thats love. congradulations, its a boy.
burgoobwah · Sat Dec 09, 2006 @ 10:19am · 0 Comments |