When you get bad vibes from someone, a friend, an acquaintance, anyone you are regularly in contact with but are unsure if those feelings are legit, what do? Normally our feelings and instincts mean something and they are usually pretty accurate. Part of me doesn't want to cut ties with someone like that unless something bad is actually confirmed even though I get tempted to.
In a way I feel like I can be a bit of a pushover because I let someone like that stay around until it's completely certain that they are bad news. I just don't want to seem mean and that I did it for no good reason which I feel is me brushing my feelings and instincts under the rug. I am much more on the side to do it though but I just don't have it in me to do so which is why I feel I'm a bit of a pushover. I know my instincts, I can always tell when something is off with someone and it never fails.
