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User Comments: [8]
Ringlefinch
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Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 12:56pm


He sounds a lot like my ex GF. The similarities are scary. She would get neurotic about me going out with friends. Hated me using the computer and seamed to live in constant fear of me cheating on her.

A word of advice from experience. You will be better off out of this relationship. You cant be something else just to make some one else feel better about you.
Love is about excepting someone for who they are and wanting to be wit that person. If he wanted you to be different then what he really needed was different woman. Or rather Stepford woman by the sounds of things.

The foundation of any relationship is trust. So if there is no trust then the relationship is doomed to collapse.

Im sorry your going through all this

sad


wiccan j
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 02:17pm


You go ahead and vent. It is better out. All of your friends here will give you the support they can from where they are at. *hugs tight* He sounds very insecure with himself. But ya know, when I met him, he seemed confident and relaxed. Was it all for show is what I am wondering now. It is terrible that Alicia is put in the middle and she probably feels displaced in her home. Give her a hug from me please. Listen, call me if there is anything I can do for you two. I don't know what it may be, but I will figure it out. I love ya girl.


Faery Nuff
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Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 03:59pm


What Stumble said!

*huggles* Catt, you don't need someone who's gonna make you feel like that! Sure he's probably got his good points, you wouldn't have looked twice otherwise, but you need a life too hunny and if he doesn't trust you enough to let you do what you want then he's no good for you.

Maybe he's been crapped on in the past and that's what made him so insecure, but that's no excuse to treat you the way he is. After all you've been together long enough to have proved to him that you're not about to s**t on him. If he hasn't realised that by now then he never will. And without trust there's nothing.

You CAN do this on your own. You've got amazing friends here who, although we can't actually be there with you, are still here for you! And that in iteself is proof that you're worth more than being stuck at home hiding yourself from the world.

You deserve to be happy. Don't let him drag you down.


Loira Croft
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 06:45pm


Yea, I hear ya. I am having some trouble here too. not nearly as bad as yours though. My boss is trying to get fired so she can collect unemployment insurance, and in turn is making life difficult for all of us in turn. Shes also setting up things so when she does get fired, it will be a horrible, disorganized mess. Hey you want to move out here? We have openings! and I'll be a reference wink we need good people in purchasing and sales! whad'ya think?


Loira Croft
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 07:05pm


sorry it posted twice when I refreshed the page. thats my bad! redface


lady ayami chan
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 07:22pm


aww cat - *hugs*
i just want to give my support to your happiness.
You deserve to be happy and I hope you can be.
So sorry - relationship stress is the hardest in my opinion.


Arashi Erina
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 09:32pm


Sorry to say, but I think that you might have to leave him and try to something better. God knows you deserve it. It will take time of course, but I'm sure that you and your daughter will be fine.


FallenSammy
Community Member





Thu Jul 30, 2009 @ 10:03pm


I'll third wha Stumble said and second wha Nuffy said, if there is ANYTHING i can do to help dont hesiatate to drop me a message you have multiple ways to do so, YOU deserve SO much better and I really hope you get it, I want you to be happy, you bein unhappy wont help Alicia, she's old enough to see and understand wha ya "ex" is doin to you, you are an AMAZING woman kind caring thoughtful and gorgeous and don't you forget it! Any guy with half an ounce of common sense would give his right arm and his left to be with you and would trust you with his life, everyone suffers with a lil jealousy but lockin you away from the world tha's the act of a controlling psychopath!!!! Get out GET OUT, i know it will be difficult but i know you'll find a way! If i was closer i would hide you and Alicia at mine and help you any way i could. I love ya hunny as does all your other friends here! and i think tha can be seen quite clearly by the response you've had to your rant we all care and worry bout you and jus wanna see you happy *big hugs and loves and successful thoughts your way*


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