My Grandfather is coming over today, My father wants me there after my shift.
He has done terrible things in the past but he is also old and (according to my father) may die at anytime. To me he is as healthy as an oxe but I scarce argue lest irony step in. I'm not really angry with him. I've come to find thier are other people in this world that I hate more.
Though I have recently learned from my cousins, that one of my Aunts had done something I consider unspeakable. She was with my Grandmother the last 4 hours of her life and called noone till after her death. I had seen this Aunt a lot before I learned this. That is not to be the case any longer.
When my mother died, she was surrounded by her family. Thats the way it ought to be.