Shiro Chan needed to clean her room and we made a box for Moonlight_Blade, who collects random crap both on Gaia and the real world. Then thiers my BF DoorMouseWild heart .
We got icecream, looked around a reptile museum, went to a ramen shop, Albertsons to get more icecream, then to my place, where I showed them American Mcgee's Alice.
It was a fun day but I'd like to get something off my chest now.
It has come to my attention that people (You know who you are) have approched my BF and asked him to
Talk to me about my clothes
Take away my alcohol. (I don't drink that much)
And God knows what else.
He's heared crap like "She needs someone to guide and take care of her."and "You shouldn't let you grilfriend do this." or "Why do you let her do that."
My BF will usually respond with" _______ is her own person and can make her own decisions."
Before I met DoorMouseWild, I made it clear I was searching for noone and I meant it. I often had to hear crap about how I needed a man to be happy, usually by someone who wanted to be that man.
"But I'm going to school right now, looking for work, enjoying the company of my friends. Why do I need a boyfriend, I feel complete already."
I've had two boyfriends before my current.
One was brute, whom my father called The Meathead. The Meathead was selfish, rude, verbally abusive, jealous, and overly possesive. He made excuse's for himself and let his emotions rule him.
He was also in his late 20's. Still lived with his parents, hated his job. (He only got to keep me)
The second, wasn't all that bad. He was kind, creative, never said a rotten thing to me. But like the first he was overly jealous and lacked motivation to work or got to school. Unlike the first, I hope he finds someone. The Meathead is in my opinion beyond hope.
My current boyfriend considers me his equal. He trusts me unconditonal and (unlike the first two) has never told me who I could and couldn't be friends with. Though he's always there, hes not overly possesive. I've never heard an unkind word from him, though some of his jokes have occasionally offended me.
He has never cheated on me; He has never lied to me and He has my complete confidence. Like myself he is searching for work. (Infact we both have interviews tommorow.) We plan our lives together. Our work life and our play life are well balanced. He respects my independance and rebellion against the norm. I doubt I'll find anyone like that again in my entire life and I wouldn't trade him for the world. Thankyou God for DoorMouseWild.
